Yes, Abusers Can Change!
"End Spousal Abuse & Save Your Marriage"
From the Desk of Dr. Jeanne King, Ph.D.
Are you in an intimate relationship that hurts? Do you feel violated by the things your partner does or says? Are you in a place wherein you can no longer endure any further abuse?
If so, read on...because the next set of questions were written especially for you.
What if you and your spouse could "fix" the relationship that many people urge you to flee, would you want to try?
Do you long to rid yourself of domestic abuse without bringing further abuse to you or to your children?
Do you want peace and wish you could have it at home...where you have the dream you cherish...where you have what you once thought was love...and where you have the life and family you know?
If you have answered, "yes" to any of these questions, then I encourage you to digest the following page thoroughly!
Can Abusers Change?
Every person in an abusive relationship, whether they are the abuser or the abused, can influence the dynamics of the relationship. Now, this doesn’t mean to imply that domestic abuse survivors are responsible for the battering or even have the ability to end the abuse perpetuated upon them.
What it does mean is that many batterers (at least the ones we see) have an innate potential for refocusing and thus reinventing themselves, their relationships and their lives. And domestic abuse victims, too, have this same ability—which recreates their destiny with respect to their intimate relationship and beyond.
We’ve just met, so let me introduce myself...
as you may be wondering, why listen to me?
I have been helping people identify, end and heal from domestic abuse for over a decade. And I serve as a consulting expert on both civil and criminal cases of intimate partner violence.
The first book I wrote on the subject, All But My Soul, became a college textbook in criminal justice. Since this time, I’ve published 10 eBooks and over 300 articles on identifying, ending and healing from physical, emotional and verbal abuse.
I am a seasoned licensed psychologist of 28 years (at the time of this writing). And this background gives me the benefit of understanding the psychosocial dynamics that bind abusive relationships as well as the mechanics of healing relationship abuse.
Knowing "It" from the Inside Out
But all of my knowledge about domestic abuse intervention doesn’t come from the hundreds of books I have read or from the people I have helped. It also comes from the fact that I, too, lived the nightmare and carried the pain of intimate partner abuse.
So I know it from the inside out, as well. And I know how hard it is to find professional help that truly understands the actual inner ache of domestic violence AND the principles of healing relationship abuse.
I truly understand how important it is for you to end and heal from intimate partner abuse: emotionally, physically and psychologically. And I know how important it is for your partner to break the cycle of spousal abuse. ....Lastly, you and I both know the benefit this will have for your marriage and for your family.
By profession, practice and expertise, I am a healer first. And my experience has shown me that people, at the core of their being, have the capacity for change. Can I interest you in seeing how this may be possible for you and your partner?
End the Domestic Abuse in Your Relationship
In as little as one day, you can be well on your way recognizing how abusive relationship therapy works. You will be able to imagine the results of innovative treatment designed to end domestic abuse AND save your relationship. You will see how effective domestic violence counseling promotes change for batterers and healing for domestic abuse survivors.
It can become as real for you as the abuse you seek to end. You will experience the promise that domestic abuse treatment affords, and understand how its results can become the greatest asset to your marriage.
"For the first time, I experienced "being heard." Reading these books resonated too deeply at times, and on other occasions gave voice and perspective to unresolved questions that have been brewing within. Thank you so much! I found it an enormously beneficial, enlightening and supportive experience." Anonymous Survivor
"If there is something I want from her, I can let her know without bullying, attacking, threatening or diminishing her." Anonymous Male Participant
"I am stronger and happier, and people tell me they see me being myself again." Anonymous Female Participant
"I'd make it a point to get my hands on anything Dr. King writes concerning Domestic Abuse; a subject that is near and dear to my heart. Her compassion and understanding are like a breath of fresh air in a sea of information that is often difficult to navigate, but too critical not to" Tina Caldwell, GA
Yes, Abusers Can Change...
End Spousal Abuse & Save your Marriage
Features and Benefits
Helps you see that emotional and verbal abuse come from an abuser’s vulnerability—not power—thus aiding you and your partner in taking the first step toward breaking the cycle of domestic abuse.
Identifies the attitudes of verbally abusive partners that can be modified in domestic abuse treatment.
Shows you the subtleties of financial control, giving you insight on how financial abuse manifests in abusive relationships irrespective of the family wealth.
Reveals the 4 fundamental steps in dismantling your partner’s denial, which ultimately is the cornerstone of his breaking the cycle of spousal abuse.
Shows you how to engage your partner in a therapeutic intervention designed to break the cycle of abuse and save your marriage.
Clarifies the difference between individual psychotherapy and abusive relationship therapy, so that you can save time and money on your road to breaking the cycle of domestic abuse.
Shows you when marital therapy helps and when it hurts couples in abusive relationships, helping you avoid the risk of increasing danger to yourself as a result of marriage counseling.
Helps you understand the pitfalls of trying to change each another, so that the two of you maintain a self-reflective focus supporting positive outcome in therapy.
Gives sound advice on using cooldown time-out procedure to mitigate heighten emotion, aiding you and your partner in dealing with relationship conflict effectively.
Speaks to the importance of batterers expressing their unmet needs in a way to enhance rather than compromise their intimate relationship.
Offers insight on how your partner can learn to honor your experience instead of attacking, controlling and trying to change it.
Helps you see how giving and receiving feedback/criticism can be done in a way that enhances rather than diminishes intimate relationships.
Gives clarity to individual boundaries and responsibility necessary for maintaining mutual respect in intimate relationships.
Helps you recognize the importance and see the prospect of your reclaiming yourself and feeling whole in the presence of your intimate partner.
Shows you the possibilities of what can be changed in domestic abuse treatment, so you can make an informed decision regarding your best course of action.
For as little as one-fifth of a professional therapy session, you can have all of this information and insight, today.
And even better, you can have it right now from this website in a downloadable PDF file. No delivery, no shipping. Simple easy immediate access to help you usher in peace, safety and well-being.
And that’s not all. You will also receive 3 special reports (valued at $15) when you obtain your Yes, Abusers Can Change: End Spousal Abuse & Save your Marriage eBook today.
Verbal Abuse in Marriage – 7 Realities About Verbal Emotional Abuse
Domestic Violence "Tiffany's Style" – 5 Challenges of Wealthy Abused Women
Domestic Violence Divorce – How Abusers Use the System to Invalidate Domestic Violence Survivors
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May there be peace and well-being for you and yours.
Partners in Prevention
Jeanne King, Ph.D.
PS. Domestic abuse goes in one direction. It gets worse without effective intervention. Domestic abuse treatment is designed to help you and your partner end domestic abuse AND save your marriage.
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